给特别的你:
没有奋斗,就没有力量。这是2011年,最深的感触。“总”,有头有尾,有口有心。姑且谈谈这忽忽离去的一年吧。
本命年在中国文化里有着特殊的含义,它常常成为不祥的化身。但于我而言,它却是觉醒的一年。我不再彷徨与失望。尽管我一生都如此被动,尽管我依然没有明确的方向,但我再也不会停下脚步。车到山前必有路,不起程,便永远到不了远方。这里面,没有好逸恶劳的幻想,没有拈轻怕重的推脱,没有瞻前顾后的焦虑,有的只是扎扎实实的——把自己站成一棵树,没有悲欢的姿势,非常沉默、非常骄傲,从不依靠、从不寻找。
这一年,我重拾了三个习惯。
第一个习惯,学习。学习,像你从来没有学习那样去学习,像你永远无法停止学习那样去学习。从每个人身上,从每件事上找到闪光之处。尽管我们身处于一个物质至上的世界,但欲壑难填,唯有通过智慧之门追求财富最大化,唯有通过精神之路实现终极的满足。
第二个习惯,淡然。中庸如太极,黑中有白,阴中有阳。世间本无答案,何必苦苦追索?平静的去看待世间的不公与不幸,才发现痛苦的不是痛苦本身,而是事前事后患得患失的心态。看山是山,看水是水,再看山不是山,再看水不是水。
最后的也是最重要的,跑步。有人说人生是一场马拉松,于我而言,他更像是一场又一场的马拉松,每一场是一个新的起点,又是一个新的终点。跑步让我的身体更加健康,思路更加清晰,意志更加坚强。这些都是安身立命之本。因此我会一直热爱并坚持下去。意想不到的是,因为他,我重拾并升华了这个习惯,因为他,我终于遇见一个可以伴我跑步的人,尽管这很有可能只是暂时的,也将了无遗憾。毕竟人生始终是一个人的奋斗,无论路边的风景再华美,正如马拉松。
总而言之,学习,淡然,跑步,永不后悔,永不放弃。最后在新的一年里,你我共勉之:“相信自己会成功,你就会成功。
作者:橘子 日期:2012年1月11日
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To my favourite:
Where there is no struggle, there is no strength.It’s my deepest feeling of 2011.Start well and end well.Anyway,say something about the last whole year
Animal year always represents disaster in Chinese culture,however,it’s a wonderful year to me.First of all, I became more positive and enterprising,have a brighter outlook on life. I believe that not to advance is to go back.Abandon all unrealistic fancy and unnecessary anxiety,just focus on today——turn yourself into a dedicated man, without joy and sorrow, without hesitate and weakness,really silent,really proud,just like a tree
I reclaim three essential habits in this year
At first,learning.Learn like you never learn before, learn like you can never stop learning again. Learn form everyone,learn form everything.Money can cure hunger, but not the unhappiness; Food can satisfy the appetite, but not the soul.While the wisdom makes you so inspiring and confident,leading to the greatest wealth and satisfaction
Second, relax.Stop looking for answers to those puzzles of the world. After all, they do not necessarily exist, or the truth might hurt your feelings.Just take it easy and have more patient to those unfair and unfortunate,you will obtain a amazing peace of mind
Last but not the least,running.Someone says that life is a marathon,but it seems like games after games to me. Running clear my thought,keep my health,strengthen my will.Thanks to the fate,I finally meet someone that can run with me and enlighten my mind,although it’s temporary in all probability,that’s enough.Because I know that life is an individual struggle,no matter how gorgeous the scenery is,just like the marathon
In a word,keep learning,keep thinking,keep running,never regret,never give up. Finally, I would like to use the following words as our mutual encouragement in this new year:"If you think you can, you can.”
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